Love Dare - Dare 5 Love is Not Rude

Day 5: Love is not rude

He who blesses his friend with a loud voice early in the morning, it will be reckoned a curse to him.

—Proverbs 27:14

Ask your spouse to tell you three things that cause him or her to be uncomfortable or irritated with you. You must do so without attacking them or justifying your behavior. This is from their perspective only.

Today my hubs had to deal with this issue outside of our marriage. When we spoke about it I had to listen to my own advice. When someone speaks to you in an ill manor or is yelling or raising their voice remember that two wrongs do not make a right.

So in turn when me and the hubs are not agreeing, getting upset or speaking in an ill manor is unhealthy to our communication growth. I have to learn to listen a little more than I talk and to voice when I feel like I am not being listened to.

It is not a science and it will take work to get it all figured out but most welcomed and worth it.

Xo ~ Claudia
I am Wife/Mom/Student/Teacher/Girl Scout Leader/Soccer Mom/Gymnastic Mom/Person/Sinner/Believer ~ I may be one person but I wear many hats.

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