Day 13: Love fights fair
If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand.
Talk with your spouse about establishing healthy rules of engagement. If your mate is not ready for this, then write out your own personal rules to "fight" by. Resolve to abide by them when the next disagreement occurs. If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand.
This was hard to do because I was not with my husband today. I had to go to school as he got home. So I emailed him. I am hoping to come out of this all with a new respect for him. I love him and making it work is my main goal.
Rules are something that is important and I know that making them and respecting his will make getting over the hard moments much easier.